Pre-wedding blues
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I thought things might have calmed down post Christmas, but here I am in a smart shirt and trousers, with more smartness hung up behind me, ready to go out and pick up Trevor and Jon. Helen’s getting married.
So where did we leave off last time? Dad had just left. He’s back up north now, but that doesn’t mean we’ve reclaimed the house. Paul’s cousin and his girlfriend arrived last night and took over the spare room. They’re here until tomorrow, I think, when they’ll be dashing back up to Coventry for working on New Year’s Eve.
Getting married the day before New Year’s Eve strikes me as a bit of genius, actually. Pretty much everyone’s still off work, and nobody stays in hotels at this time of year, so it’s easy - in theory - for everyone to find somewhere to stay. The only risk, of course, was the weather, which could have been truly grim. As it happens, though, the skies are as blue as could be for as far as you can see, and the only clouds are tiny whisps way, way, way up high.
It’s not even that cold. The little icon on my Gnome task bar puts it at 11degrees in Stanstead, with the prospect of warmer times ahead. Another two days of this, and it’ll be a perfect start to the new year, and excellent weather for the Mud Race on the 2nd.
Time to sign off. I have to go out and make my collection.
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July 4th, 2005 at 12:07 am
hi, where do i start, wedding date 07.08.05 fantactic function etc. been together 3 years know each other through friends for 8 years, i have had a marriage before since i was 21 finished when i was 33 years i have a son of 12 years old and the snip!!i didnt leave my wife for my new partner!! i left because it was dead sounds harsh but tried to fix without success.
i am a chef buy trade and a good one, my partner works for a adotion unit, she is 25 years of age iam 36 years old, her family is fantistic….since her new job my partner has adoted a new friend at her work place,
here as it starts, my partner comes home and says to me i cant married you i am not in love you, yer big blow i now XXXXXup family alround as well, so many mix feeling coming from here lips, ie i am feel confuse, i am drawn to the the woman i talk too, she has had panic attacks since, she keeps going to this woman for support, then i get she has feeling for her!!!!, i getting more xxxxup, after 12 days i have lost 1st 12ibs great to most poeple,,,,thats great (not for me)feel sick lost my well being etc,with in this time she has admmitted she is only a friend, and also at her work she is a counciller, and what she may off said to me was all wrong and her mind was all mess up, each night she need her space which i give, which i had to do in our interest,she has now said she wants me and needs me, doent want to lose me, etc etc,she does have lots of panic attacks in the night ,some time we sleep together and then she goes in the spare room, when we do get close within 10 minutes she get all panicky and cant go through with it(i go with the flow)and reinsure her and say its all ok, she does say a her friends name a few times in her sleep which scares me .
i am scared of losing her,, sometimes she dont make sense, i hope this is wedding nerves hey what man understands a woman!!sometimes i feel this other women is a threat as i try to brush it off,it just seems that my partner has said what she has off loadas her feeling ( WHICH I DONT KNOW) said to her and the spanners have come in,, maybe not ,but this how i feel as a groom, we have come a long way and now this hick up and a big one too, please help clive